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Every generation of young people seem to go through the stage of
pulling away from their faith and religious affiliation. This stirs up a
continual fear among parents and religious leaders everywhere. It's
natural and has always been a rite of passage for young people, but this
time around there seems to be a difference. This time the youth aren't
returning back to their religious upbringing and this time many of these
youth are expressing an unusual hunger for spirituality, while
rejecting the homegrown answers of their childhood.
A few years ago a successful children's filmmaker approached
me. He was interested in making a children's video on the Bible and he
was told that I would make it all about Jesus. It was a fascinating
encounter, forcing me to find out what is happening in religious
instruction for children. From my somewhat limited vantage point, all I
could see was that we have spent so much time rehearsing the
biographical stories out of the Bible, but only inserted Jesus at the
"You-all-want-to-go-to-heaven-don't-you time!" So I moved into research
mode.
My first sampling was to ask two of my most "churched"
grandchildren what their favorite stories of Jesus were. They were 7 and
9 at the time. Much to my surprise, they were stumped for an answer.
Then Luke said, "Jesus was born!" "Yes!" I said. Then Luke added, "And
we get presents!" Well, he had the right answer, but maybe his
application was a little weak. After that outburst, there was nothing
more to be added by my two samples.
I moved into gear and told them about Jesus losing his best
friend, Lazarus, and then after Lazarus was really dead, Jesus brought
him back to life. "And Jesus had his best friend again!" they said. I
then made my way into the wedding feast where Jesus turned the water
into juice. "Apple juice?" "No, it was actually grape juice." I showed
them how much water was used by outlining a room in their house and they
were amazed.
After taking this sampling of what is taught to our
children, I met with the Children's Pastors of three local
mega-Churches. When I asked how much they actually teach the children
about Jesus, they all answered, "Every week!" Then as I pressed in on
the studies, they all realized as I had that they do not teach much
about Jesus at all. It was a shocking moment for us all!
It's no wonder our youth are leaving the Church and not
coming back. What are they going to come back for? The re-telling of the
old stories? The old stories just aren't enough to hold a person's
commitment and devotion. There must be something more.
You see, I think what we've been doing for so long is to
teach children about our religious systems, doctrines and traditions,
but have left Jesus out of the equation. Oh, we all know Jesus is
around. He actually hasn't left the building yet, but there is little to
introduce a kid to this amazing and irresistible Jesus. And if a child
doesn't get to know Jesus, other than praying the sinner's prayer, that
child will not learn to follow Jesus with his life. Why introduce kids
to Church or your religious persuasion without Jesus? There is something
fundamentally wrong with this picture.
As I have been writing this book, JESUS PLUS NOTHING, two
observations quickly come to mind. First, our children need to get to
know Jesus. They are the most receptive to this most authentic person.
Jesus even repeatedly teaches that unless one becomes like a little
child, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.
The answer is not to teach
our children better or more, so they can defend and propagate their
faith. The answer for our children is to be introduced to Jesus.
Second, our children are most indelibly marked by their
parents and other significant adults in their lives-not by going to a
religious instruction class.
Parents can be so critical of the religious
institution, yet it is in the home where the most significant lessons
of life and of Jesus are taught or not taught. Kids desperately need to
see and hear Jesus from their parents and significant adults in their
lives. More than anything else, kids need to get the sense that their
models are sincerely following Jesus with their lives. It's more than
teaching. Jesus is both taught and caught!
If your children aren't sufficiently turned off in the
elementary years, there is a significant opportunity for them to be
rescued from their wandering from God and satisfying their deepest
spiritual longings through an active youth group. It's within this
context that there is a greater opportunity to be influenced by others
who have come to know Jesus in a personal way and are not boxed into a
system of do's and don'ts and religious verbiage that serve to turn the
youth away.
If you as a parent, a youth worker, a teacher, a coach, a
mentor or a neighbor, join the Jesus movement and embrace "Jesus plus
nothing" for yourself, you will be the best answer for the young seekers
around you. In fact, when you touch a child with the powerful message
of Jesus, you are planting a seed that has the potential to transform a
generation. Note that I'm not speaking religiously, but personally.
"Jesus plus nothing" is a personal matter. The person is Jesus!
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After growing up in a Western Christian culture with lots of
love and good Church and family experiences, I met Jesus. He was
different than I expected. He was different from the faculty that
educated me, different from the religious crowds that flocked around me
at speaking events and conferences, different from the many spiritual
friends that deserted me during my down times.
Jesus was the one who stayed. He was the one who didn't
shake his head in disappointment, didn't turn away in disgust. He is the
one who knelt down, picked me up, dusted me off. He is the one who
embraced me. It was then I realized that the Jesus I had first embraced
was different from the one who was embracing me now.
And I realized something else. That Jesus I could follow.
That Jesus I wanted to follow, needed to follow, couldn't help but to
follow.
Not the Jesus who is wrapped up in a religious system of
do's and don'ts. Not the Jesus who is used to raise money to build more
and more buildings or fill the religious treasuries. Not the Jesus who
was highjacked for the violent Crusades-persecuting, killing, and even
mass murdering Jews, Muslims, all non-Christians, and even other
Christians who disagreed with them. Not the Jesus who is embraced by a
political candidate or party to impress the people. Not the Jesus who
wants you to join his club. Not the Jesus who puts a heavy guilt trip on
you for not performing. Not the hell-fire-and-damnation Jesus. Nor the
meek-and-mild Jesus.
This Jesus is the one I never really knew. The one without
Christian verbiage. The one without religious baggage. The one without
self-righteous garbage. This is Jesus plus nothing.
This Jesus is the Jesus that the early followers, called
disciples, got to know. For three-and-a-half years they were in an
apprentice relationship with Jesus. In their system of education they
never made the grade of being chosen by a rabbi to follow in his steps,
so they had returned home to work the family business.
But this rabbi,
this Jesus, this new guy in town, he chooses them to follow him. He
picked uneducated, untrained, ordinary men to come along with him and
learn from him. In a sense, Jesus chose those who hadn't made the cut,
walk-ons, as the team he wanted on the field in the most important game
in the history of the world.
From those early beginnings, the Jesus movement continues to
be the largest in the world today. This all-encompassing movement
consists of people from every culture and religion on the
earth-Christians, Muslims, Buddhists, Jews, Hindus, Sikhs, Pantheists,
Agnostics. When Jesus is not boxed into any religious system or wrapped
up in a package marked "exclusive," he has proven to be universally
attractive throughout the world. People from every culture embrace
Jesus, simply Jesus, whether religious or not.
Take Gandhi, for example. He was so captivated with the life
and teachings of Jesus that he became one of the greatest followers of
Jesus ever. One of the most common descriptions of Gandhi was that he
was so "Christ-like." Gandhi discovered that his cultural background as a
Hindu was enhanced by Jesus. "I shall say to Hindus," he once said,
"that your life will be incomplete unless you reverentially study the
teachings of Jesus. Make this world the kingdom of God and his
righteousness and everything will be added unto you." Gandhi, whose goal
in life was to live the Sermon on the Mount, said, "It was that sermon
that has endeared Jesus to me." And, about Jesus' death on the cross, he
said: "A man who was completely innocent, offered himself as a
sacrifice for the good of others, including his enemies, and became the
ransom of the world. It was a perfect act." And finally the quote that
was probably his most famous: "I like your Christ. I do not like your
Christians. They are so unlike your Christ."
The current Dalai Lama is another example. He has expressed
his love and respect for Jesus in many ways and on many occasions. Many
of his teachings reflect those of Jesus. As the example and leader of
the Buddhist community, the Dalai Lama is called His Holiness, yet he
says he is not worthy to even untie the shoes of Jesus. In an OP-ED
article for The New York Times, the Dalai Lama wrote: "In my readings of
the New Testament, I find myself inspired by Jesus' acts of compassion.
His miracle of the loaves and fishes, his healing and his teaching are
all motivated by the desire to relieve suffering."
Both Gandhi and the Dalai Lama revere Jesus as the greatest teacher and example who ever lived.
Looking at the long history of Jewish thought, some of the
most prominent rabbis have come to revere Jesus as possibly the most
influential Jew who ever lived. Dr. David Flusser, in his book, The Sage
From Galilee: Rediscovering Jesus' Genius, broke down many barriers
that have kept Jews from studying Jesus. Albert Einstein, one of the
greatest scientists in the world said this about Jesus: "As a child I
received instruction both in the Bible and in the Talmud. I am a Jew,
but I am enthralled by the luminous figure of the Nazarene. No one can
read the Gospels without feeling the actual presence of Jesus. His
personality pulsates in every word."
Agnostics are another group of people who have many in their
ranks who follow Jesus. In my experience they are perhaps the most open
to Jesus when presented without all the religious baggage. Agnostics
have a vacuum in their hearts. In my experience, this seems to be a
God-shaped vacuum. I continually enjoy conversing with agnostics, once I
am able to convince them that I don't want to discuss religion. It
seems that this group is better able to view Jesus separated from the
religious wrappings. They've already rejected the religious trappings
and were left empty. But, when introduced to Jesus without religious
baggage, so often they respond by saying: "I can follow this Jesus!"
The "self-help movement" is another group of people who
revere Jesus, some going as far as to follow him. Even in our highly
educated, secularized society, the principles of Jesus are the basis for
most of the self-help and motivational principles. Though they may not
use his name, they do use his teaching and his example.
In many ways this is nothing new. Jesus has always worked
with people from every culture and found them to be attracted to him.
The problem in the First Century was the religious jealousy of the
"gate-keepers" of Judaism. When Jesus presented his message of love and
compassion to the non-religious and to all other non-Jewish nations of
the world, he was resisted, ridiculed, and ultimately rejected.
Yes, Jesus plus nothing-Jesus without religious baggage or
boxes-is attractive and can be satisfying for everyone everywhere.